Saturday, April 17, 2010

I've been thinking about what motivates us to become involved in the Stephen Lewis Foundation (SLF) and its Grandmothers to Grandmothers (G2G) Campaign.

For me, it's partly the Wise Old(er) Women, the WOWs, who I have met and read about through the campaign. Women like the members of our local Grey Grannies group who get together to sell jewelry or Dare to Dance or have "hatching parties", to make Grannybirds, token gifts for donors to SLF. Women like Siphiwe Hlophe who is organizing the Grandmother Gathering in Swaziland, along with playing a key role in the operation of Swaziland Positive Living.

Stephen Lewis himself is a huge motivator, as almost anyone who has heard him speak with such passion about the HIV/AIDS pandemic in sub-Saharan Africa will agree.

And the children.

I remember as we were settling into our first house in St. John's, a neighbor took me under her wing. She set out to introduce me to Newfie-speak, to tease me when I couldn't understand so much of what she said, to give me tastes of seal meat (yuck!) and fresh hot toutens with molasses (yum!), and, to ensure I wasn't taken advantage of by any of the other neighbors. "You're too soft!" she told me repeatedly, when I didn't take issue with someone over some infraction or other.

Actually I'm pretty impervious, oblivious to lots of things, pretty hard-nosed. I don't cry- almost never. But, reading "Bruno's Story" in the SLF's Grassroots publication had me close to tears- still does. Bruno was a small Ugandan boy aged 14 who was living isolated and alone, after the deaths of all the adults in his family compound. As the field representative described it: "No people, no pets, no company, no protection. No paraffin lantern or even a candle for light after dark. No food in the kitchen except for some bananas and a few mangos. And just one small boy, trying to make it on his own, day by day." The shreds of hope in the story were that Bruno went to school every day, to the Nyaka AIDS Orphan School, and that the SLF field representative had made contact with him.

Then there is Mantua. She lives in Soweto with her grandmother Salome and younger brother Joseph. In the SLF film "Grandmothers: the Unsung Heroes", 9-year-old Mantua tells us she wants to be a doctor. There is hope and determination in her shy face. One hopes she can live her dream- she and so many others in sub-Saharan Africa, where they can fill such a need.

I have an idea, a fantasy probably, of learning more about Mantua when I visit Johannesburg. But in any case, Bruno's story and Mantua's underline the key role of access to schooling. Our support can contribute to ensuring the Brunos and Mantuas can get an education .

1 comment:

  1. I like the term WOW. I have thought that one of my most important ambitions is to become a grandmother some day, like you, my mother. (Someone I used to go to art school liked to say, "If it's an old wive's tale then there must be truth in it." I like how she deflected the sexism in that old saying.)

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